Changes in life,

In our lives will happen every single day some changes. Some are smaller, some are bigger in the same time. Sometimes, it can happen, that several changes can happen in the same time. Some changes are good and some changes might hurt and some changes is necessary to do, to deal with life further.
Which are the changes we need to do? Which are the changes, what might hurt us the most? When do we understand, that changes, what happens in our lives might turn our life upside down? Why do we need them at all?
The small word can bring up so many different questions, that sometimes it is hard to find all the answers. But do we need to find all the answers? Feels like not always. Seems, that sometimes it is good not to have all the answers. But is it? Does it not might show our weak sides, if we cannot give the answers to all questions?
Still, we live in the moment we have at the time. Some of those moments are good and make us later, when we think back of them, smile and happy and other hand, there will be moments, what we do want to forget in our lives. The moments, what makes us sad, feeling bad and in stress. Those moments can damage so many things in one. Why else there is saying, that badmouthing has more power than anything else. Is there possibility to stop that snowball effect? Answer for that would be easy, no, not always. Sometimes the damage can be bigger, than someone could admit about it. From beginning of life people have felt about it. Some people are enjoining to badmouth about others, but do those people also admit, that sometimes the words, they tell might not be true? How should be thinking then about him/her? I know, some people does not care about it, since their ego is bigger and they need to be in the middle of the earth. All has to be about them. They can't see even that around them are so many people who gets hurt, but they do not care about it. They can only see in front of their own eyes and nose. That rises up the big question. What about other people? Do they have no heart and no feelings? Should other people forget their problems and things and just think, that the person who needs to be in the middle of earth is most important?
So some changes are definitely good and also necessary and some, we don't like or want, we just have to adjust ourselves with them. Tomorrow is new day. New things and questions will rise up. New adjustments need to be done. Time will show, is those adjustments, what we have done right or wrong, but past will be past and hard to be changed. We just have to accept, that decision what was made in past, will change the future as well as the moment we are right now.
So before big decisions what will change the life, we need to think about the results of that and will we be agree with the end result.